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Inspiration/Creativity/Motivation / Re: The Balance Between "Maintenance" and "Absolute Dedication"
« on: August 10, 2016, 07:42:04 am »
I'm generally not very good at balancing multiple tasks. I'm only really good at focusing on one thing very intensely. Strangely enough it's these "dedication" periods of my life that have allowed me to go through the most growth. Only after I've become completely obsessed with something do I begin to notice myself making rapid progress. Nowadays I've learned however to pay a healthy amount of attention to other aspects of my life aside from just music. I used to think in order to get really good at anything I would have to sacrifice pleasures like friends, partys, money, and relationships but in reality that was just a self-limiting belief. It's a lot easier to focus on music when I'm not in poverty and I have friends to keep me inspired. Not to mention when things aren't going my way sometimes taking a step back is the best thing i can do to recharge my batteries. You don't need to become a savant and practice 16 hours a day. Quality over quantity.
The problem with being in a dedication phase in the way that you described it is that you miss out on other things in life which can be just as satisfying as writing music. If you're eating dinner with a friend but really you're thinking about chord progressions in the back of your mind then where are you at mentally? In reality there isn't any difference between dedication or maintenance. If you are truly dedicated then you should be doing it daily and you should be focusing on it when you're doing it. Just don't let it ruin other aspects of your life in the process. It isn't worth it. Your health, needs, and well-being are just as important.
The problem with being in a dedication phase in the way that you described it is that you miss out on other things in life which can be just as satisfying as writing music. If you're eating dinner with a friend but really you're thinking about chord progressions in the back of your mind then where are you at mentally? In reality there isn't any difference between dedication or maintenance. If you are truly dedicated then you should be doing it daily and you should be focusing on it when you're doing it. Just don't let it ruin other aspects of your life in the process. It isn't worth it. Your health, needs, and well-being are just as important.