Remember the golden rule: if it sounds good, it sounds good.
So first of all, do whatever is easiest for you. If the simple iDrum plugin works for you, great. Use it. Don't try to over burden yourself with a lot of layers and fancy stuff, just get drum beats down and simple and fast as possible. Doesn't matter how you do it, just do it. Then once you get a nice drum pattern, put a tiny bit of reverb on it, then put an EQ on and put a tiny bit of boost on the mids and highs (so it sounds cleaner), and that's really it. Don't try to overwhelm yourself, just make it sound good enough for you so you can move forward and put other sounds onto the project.
You can learn more technical stuff as you go along, but for right now, do what is easy and try to finish songs.