Honestly, I found my style by accident, but when you find your sound, you'll
know.Keep in mind before this story, I was - just like you - frustrated in not having my "own sound..."
I was p*ssing about with a mate; he makes YouTube videos and needed some background music. He was basically telling me what he wanted the music to sound like and I was doing it for him, nothing special. We had this guitar riff going with an Ableton sample; it sounded decent but we both knew it needed something else. So
as a joke, I completely ramped up the reverb and delay to almost max. I was preparing myself to laugh when we both stopped and went, "actually, that sounds kinda good..."

From then on i've just been experimenting basically with drenching sounds in reverb and delay, as well as a bunch of other things I like to incorporate in "my sound."
The fact of the matter is, if I told you how to make "your sound" then it wouldn't be your sound anymore. You just have to keep experimenting. Do things which break the rules if you have to - I did and now i'm very much satisfied
And like I said, if you find something you like, and you listen back a week later and you still like it, and then a month later and you
still like it, then you'll know it's your sound
