things started to change for me when i started to put in more effort, and learn actually how a music piece was made, when i began, i went in the studio and wrote whatever i wanted without any technical knowledge, i know now this isn't the right way to do it
now its about 4 years in and things are changing, i can feel it when i open up my daw
i know that if you want to make good music, you have to become a nerd about music production and be hungry for knowledge,
you start to impress yourself when you get better, and this builds confidence, this means you eventually start to build your own sound
your habits start to change, you look at what the pros are doing, what they are reading, what they are looking at, you become inspired, dont compare too much, they're pretty much setting the bar for you
its all about being very focused, not becoming distracted, and really soaking up knowledge and becoming a sponge
i think its also good to be a DJ too, i started playing at my friend's parties when i began, and you can get a feel of what works and what doesnt work, but honestly i love producing more than djing because you have actual knowledge of the construction of music, and you're just smarter than a guy who plays records
i noticed that once you get into this rabbit hole of producing, you start to notice things in the world, you start to see that there are lazy people out there who dont care about their craft and most of your buddies just wanna take vacations and social media, in time you start to supersede those guys
cause your work ethic increases